Travel: Rome, Italy {Day 1}

It's been roughly 9 months since our trip to Europe; I figured it's about time I reminisce & share :)
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Rome.

What do you think about when you hear the word Rome?
History. Cobblestone streets. The Pope. Vatican City. The Coloseeum. Pasta. Wine.

Well, Rome is all of those things, and so much more.  To be honest though, I'd be lying if I said I wanted to go back anytime soon.  Don't get me wrong, Rome is amazing.  But it's also filled with millions of tourists.  What we saw & experienced in Rome was surely once in a life time, but to my surprise, Rome was a hustling, bustling big city, just without skyscrapers.  Heavy traffic, no parking spots, cafe's with coffee counters that were 4 people deep...  For some reason, when I think of Rome, I think about stepping back in time.  I wasn't quite prepared to be surrounded with so many other tourists, constantly being worried about pick-pockets, gypsies, and people selling selfie sticks at every corner.

Most people would jump at the chance to visit Rome, and rightfully so.  It's one of those places everybody should experience at least once.  I guess this small-town Wisconsin girl just wasn't quite prepared for such a busy city.  And in Rome's defense, we did visit ALL the touristy spots, never  really going off the beaten path (we went with a tour group, so we really didn't have a choice).   So it's no wonder our days were shared with thousands of other tourists.

Our first day in Rome was fairly mellow.  After a long overnight flight from Detroit, we arrived to Rome about 9:00 am.  Getting through customs was a joke – there was no organization at all, and it was like fighting your way through cattle, in a hot, smelly airport.

Once we finally got through, we found our Globus Tour bus & made the 1 hour & 45 minute trip to our hotel.  It wasn't far from the airport, but traffic was crazy!!  I thanked God every day that we didn't have to drive ourselves – traffic in Rome is complete chaos & parking is virtually impossible.

Roman Streets












Bumper to Bumper
People in Rome apparently use bumpers for their intended purpose... good luck getting out of that parking spot!













































I wanted so badly to take a little catnap upon arrival, but Zac wouldn't let me (jetlag is a very real thing, people)!  We showered & decided to prance around the city (wandering only a few blocks from our hotel) on foot, before we needed to meet our group for our welcome dinner.

We felt like complete idiots when trying to order our first lunch in Rome, but quickly caught on to the Roman ways.  Yell. Maybe cut in line. And if all else fails, point to what you want.  Don’t plan on eating inside the café because generally, there is no seating.  Don’t ask for butter, ranch, or ketchup either, because there isn't any. 

We ate our sandwich on-the-go like true Italians.  And it was super delicious – the perfect combo of meat to bread to salt ratio.  Plain, but very tasty.

sandwich

After walking around for a while, I was sweating bullets & needed a cool down (we went at the end of May, and it was HOT! I'd hate to be there in the dead of summer, yikes!)  We found a cute little lemonade shop, literally in the middle of an intersection.  Once we braved the cross traffic & entered the shop, I quickly realized that Zac & I were the only ones in the busy little place who spoke any English.  So I did the only thing I knew how to do -- I pointed to what I wanted & talked really loudly & slowly (as if they were going to understand me anyways... they're not hearing impaired, we just don't speak the same language, duh Katie!)



Lemonade

I ended up overpaying & walked out with an icy drink as sour as a green gooseberry (I don’t actually know what that is, but it sounded like a good analogy).  It neither quenched my thirst, nor cooled me down enough, so we stopped by another little roadside pizza café to get some water.  

Pizza shop

But that was another let down. Italian lesson #2: always ask for agua mineral naturale.  Otherwise you will get sparkling water. Which I despise.

Here’s a sampling of the Roman surroundings near our hotel:

Roadside flowers












Roman architectureBeautiful architecture, everywhere!  These are homes (apartments) -- aren't they darling?!

Roman laundry









Roman Housing


Zac & I noticed how people actually used shutters for their intended purpose -- they are not just decorative.



Painted car












wrought iron fence












graffiti



























Streets of Rome











Roman details











































































Roman blooms












Rome was in full bloom!  I was surprised to see colorful plants & trees scattered about the city.

Lemons in Rome












Oranges in Rome











































An old, beautiful church, with a mosaic facade.

Roman Church














Roman Church











Door; Rome























Roman architecture











Hotel Albani staircase; Rome

Random: the spiral staircase in our hotel, Hotel Albani Roma.


After wandering a couple hours by ourselves (and surprisingly not getting lost), we made our way back to the hotel to meet the group we’d be traveling with for the next 12 days (they were all wonderful people, by the way).  We were escorted to dinner at Ristorante Mino – a lovely, authentic (and highly recommended) Italian restaurant where we ate entirely too much food:


Beer

Appetizer

Appetizer. 

Pasta; Rome




























Pasta #1.

Pasta; Rome




























Pasta #2.

Pork; Rome




























Main dish.

Salad




























Salad.

Dessert; ice cream; Rome




























Dessert.


With full bellies, we survived our first day in Roma!


Stay tuned for Rome, Day 2 (think: Vatican, Colosseum, Pantheon, etc) & the rest of our travels through Italy & France!

Happy Sunday (Valentine's Day Edition)



Pssstt!  It's Valentine's Day!!  Incase you forgot, I've rounded up a few ways to celebrate with your love below:

Date night ideas... love the indoor picnic one!

A tad untraditional, but workout together, with the L.O.V.E. workout.

Spread your love, without the expensive gifts.

Make my wine spritzers & cook dinner together.

Ideas for inexpensive & easy day dates.


Happy Valentine's Day to you & you & YOU!








Favorite moments of the week.

Winter Leave | My Darling Days

+ Everyone's sweet comments on Facebook regarding this post.

+ A fridge full of fresh produce.

+ Sleeptyime tea before bed.

+ Listening to Grace snore.

+ Watching a movie with Zac.

+ Taking Elena & Kane on a day date.

+ Finding a new favorite salad dressing.

+ The start of lent = holding ourselves accountable.

+ 80's Mercedes, by Maren Morris.

+ A clean house.



Past favorites, shared here and here.

Thoughts on Burnout...(and why I'm taking a step back from photography)

About 90% of my blog traffic comes from my family, friends, & Facebook friends.  That being said, I’m using this post as a platform so that everyone can hear read the same story.

I've had quite a few requests for photo sessions in these last few weeks, and I feel SO bad saying "no".  So I’m writing this post to help my lovely clients understand why I am declining their requests until further notice.  

First off, I don’t even know if can call these people my “clients”.  I don’t have an official photography business, nor did I ever pretend to…

It all started a few years ago, 2012-2013ish?  I took pictures of my sister’s kids & people asked her who did the photos.  She said “my sister”, and soon after, a few of them started to reach out to me to see if I would take pictures of their kids.  Over time, other family & friends inquired, and I was happy to provide the service, as it helped me practice my “craft”.  Each session I felt a little more comfortable behind my camera.  In no time, I was taking newborn, family, senior, engagement & maternity photos.  I even did a couple weddings (major props to wedding photographers, this is SOOO stressful)!

Mind you, I had/have no formal photography training.  I purchased my first DSLR in 2011 & am completely self-taught.  I shot in auto for a while, until I wanted more out of my camera & my photos.  I wanted my photos to make people feel & see exactly what I felt & saw when I took the photo.  Auto mode just wasn’t cutting it.  So, I read through a few online tutorials & watched a few YouTube videos & started shooting in Manuel mode.  I had a lot of questions & wasn’t completely understanding everything, so I took a photography class at NWTC.  It was WONDERFUL & I highly recommend this class to anyone.

After the class I was thirsty for more knowledge, so I scheduled some one-on-one mentoring sessions with a couple local photographers whom I admire.  My skills were improving, and pretty quickly, my “clients” started growing beyond just family & close friends.  I was shooting people I’d never met before & scheduling about 1 session/ week.  

This would have been all fine & well, however I was working a 40 hour/week daytime job & at that time,  was also going to school 2 nights a week to finish my Bachelor’s Degree.  It seemed any free time I had, I was either taking photos or editing photos.  Instead of cuddling up with my husband on the couch to watch TV in the evenings, I was stuck in front of the computer editing or doing homework.

Besides photography becoming a time suck, I was my own worst critic & thought my photos were just OK... mediocre at best.  I started to wonder if people were booking me because I was cheap, or if they actually liked my images?  Also, I had major computer storage issues.  My CD/DVD burner no longer works - which is how I'd get clients their photos.  I don’t know how to use Photoshop or Lightroom & I didn’t have time to learn it.  I still don’t understand some of the technical things, like aspect ratio & DPI,  All of these frustrations were building up, and by the end of 2015, I was exasperated.  This fall, I turned down 12 different people asking for sessions because I didn't have any spare time to shoot them...

Photography was becoming a chore -- a second job -- and I was losing interest.


This makes me SO sad, because photography used to bring me such joy.  My most favorite thing to do is throw my camera around my neck & go for a walk in the woods.  Or, snap photos candidly, on my own terms.  But I wasn’t even finding the time or feeling the itch to do that...

Photo by Shaunae Teske Photography
SO! Long story short, my photography hobby was turning into a part-time job that I didn't want anymore.   This can happen to anyone in any situation.  It’s called burnout.

My mom gave me a card once that said at lot of really nice, encouraging things, including something to the likes of “you can do a lot of things, but you can’t do them all…”  I took this piece of advice to heart & have decided to take some time off of shooting for other people.

I want to love my hobby again.  I never want it to feel like a chore or a job again.  I still love photography; I just want to do it on my terms.

If you've stuck with me through this whole post, bless your heart.

Burnout is a real thing.  I'm hoping I can find my flame again soon!

Make: Valentine’s Day Wine Spritzer

In preparation for Valentines' Day, which is just around the corner, I created this Valentine's Day inspired wine spritzer.

Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

We don’t really celebrate Valentine’s Day, but the “Hallmark Holiday” is a nice reminder to give your significant other a little extra love & gratitude.

Our plans include staying in, making dinner together, & sipping this homemade wine spritzer.  We’ll probably end the evening with a movie or board game, and likely be in bed by 9.  We really know how to party these days...


Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

To make this festive little beverage, you’ll need:
- 2 wine glasses
- 1 jar with lid
- 1/4 cup granulated white sugar
- Red food coloring
- Wedge of lemon, line, or orange
- Your favorite wine
- Frozen berries (all I had on hand were strawberries)
- Spritz of club soda

Step 1: To make the colored sugar, add sugar to a jar.  Add a couple drops of food coloring, seal the lid, & shake well until the color is evenly dispersed.  The more food coloring you add, the darker the color, however be careful not to over add as it will make the sugar clump or become soggy.

Step 2: Use a wedge of lemon, lime, or an orange to rim your glass.  Then tip the glass over & twist the rim in the colored sugar.

Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

Step 3: Add a few of the frozen berries to the glass.

Step 4: Fill the glass 3/4 full with wine & top with a spritz of club soda.

Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

The colored sugar is festive, fun, & adds a nice little punch to an otherwise boring glass of wine.

It is Valentine’s Day, after all – add the extra touch!

Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

Valentine's Day Wine Spritzer | My Darling Days

What do your plans look like for Valentine's Day this year?


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